Joy Spotting #13: Your individuality is your superpower!

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Joy Spotting #12: Simple Ways To Be Happy Right NOW!

 It's all about the small things, my friend.

Happiness is a choice, which means you can find joy in the smallest of things. Some days, it's not easy to choose joy. But when you do, life starts to feel so much lighter and more fun. Do you think that's why they call it "playing"?

So have some fun today—even if it's just for a little while. It'll put you in a better mood and help everything else go smoother!

Here are some of my favorite ways to find joy:

1. Take a moment to listen to the birds chirping outside your window. It's amazing how this small gesture can brighten your day!

2. The smell of fresh flowers is sure to make anyone's day brighter. Pick up a bouquet of flowers from the grocery store on your way home from work and enjoy their scent in your home!

3. Take a few minutes out of your day to meditate or pray. This can bring peace and calm into even the busiest of schedules!

Still feeling a little blah, or like your life isn't really going anywhere?

If so, you need to absorb what I'm going to say now:

We know—it sounds too good to be true. But it's not. All you have to do is start paying attention to the things that bring you joy, no matter how small they might be. The things that make you smile, that make you feel grateful, or proud of yourself and your accomplishments—these are what will keep you going when times are tough.

Start by taking a few minutes each day to think about what brought you joy today. Maybe it was something as simple as having a cup of hot chocolate with a friend or seeing an old man petting a dog in the park. Whatever it is, write it down and keep track of your moments of joy over time. You'll be surprised at how much they add up!

We all have days where we just can't seem to find joy in anything. Those are the days when we need to remember that, even if we feel unloved, or unappreciated, or just plain down in the dumps, there is someone out there who...loves us? Appreciates us? Is just as depressed and down in the dumps as we are? Well, maybe not that last one. But someone out there will always be worse off than you. And you know what that means? It means you're better off than them.

Look at it this way: if everyone who is better off than you is above you, and everyone who is worse off than you is below you, then we can all assume that you...are...the middle child! Congratulations!

Don't think of yourself as the center of the universe! Now go out there and tell your most loved ones how much you love them.

I would love to know your views in finding joy. Please drop your comments below.

Cheers :)

Joy Spotting #11: 3 important factors to consider for a happy marriage

 

I was talking to a friend yesterday and discussing the success and failure of marriages.

Even a long courtship doesn't always guarantee a successful marriage. Why? Isn't few years of knowing each other enough to know a person well?

I think our minds are not wired correctly to understand this bond. Knowing each other will not give you the stamp of approval that the marriage will work.

What works and should be considered before taking the plunge are these 3 important factors:

1. The Values

Very important to know, is to understand the person's values that s/he has imbibed over the growing years. These can include values (or beliefs) related with family, friends, career, outlook towards life, companionship, money etc. Values form the basis of one's life and its outcomes. Extremely crucial to understand it well about the other person's way of thinking and his/her outlook towards life.

 2. Inner Self

We all look at the physical well-being of a person, while choosing a life partner. His/her physical attributes in terms of beauty, looks, grooming etiquettes, hygiene and everything that we can see  from the outside. What we miss out is what's inside the other person.  The inside will let you know a lot about the other person. What makes him/her happy, sad, angry, fearful. The person's struggles, strengths, weaknesses. And in all of that you can fall in love with the actual person, taking it all in your stride. 

3. Transparency

When you are aware of the above (Values, Inner self), you need to be transparent with your own self to accept whether you are in sync with the other person. Do not hide or brush it off if there are signs of doubts in your mind. The transparency has to be with the other person too, in reaching out and sharing your doubts. If something can be worked upon, and mutually agreeable, even with a set of differences, it can still culminate into a good relationship.

With these 3 important factors in consideration, lot of issues that we see everyday between couples will certainly minimise. There will be much harmony, and love and most importantly...longevity in relationships or marriages.

And every marriage solemnised will be 'happily ever after'!

Cheers :)

 

Joy Spotting #10: 'Pamper' is the Keyword

Is all the wear and tear on the body and mind in this fast paced life taking all the fun away?

This weekend, go and 'pamper' yourself. Go for that delicious cuisine that you love the most, shop for new clothes, visit a spa, spend some time on a hobby that you never had time for; anything that will give you happiness. It may not be any of the things that I have mentioned above. It could be just a simple stroll, listening to your favourite music tracks or just soaking in the sun.

Just spend sometime loving your own self.

Don't just do it this weekend. Whenever you feel like, even in the middle of a busy week day...have fun!

The more you spend happy and joyful moments with your own self, the better you will become with people and situations around you.

A happy mind is more powerful than anything else in this world. Even if you are in a very crazy and difficult phase of your life, this will work as magic as you will attract and achieve whatever you wish for.

Pamper...pamper...pamper! Your keyword not for any Search Engine Optimization (SEO) to improve your online presence, but a Life Existence Optimization (LEO) to be on the top in your life journey!


Happy Weekend :)

Joy Spotting #9: Hit Restart on Your Life!

It was a lazy day on a weekend, and I was catching up with an old friend. After a while, I glanced at my laptop and noticed that it was stuck at one of the open web pages and a buffering symbol was rotating in 'loop'.

I realised that it is not going to work or can do anything else until I just restart my laptop. My friend also suggested that I should clear all cache and it will work smoothly there on.

And here in that fraction of a second I also realised that it is such a simple and magical analogy to save us from lot of our life issues and problems that we feel stuck with!

Many a times, all of us just keep pondering over issues, keep haggling over what's going to happen and just feel stuck with problems that seem to have no end.

Why not 'restart' your life, clear the 'cache'of all the stored worries and make some empty space in your mind to bring in happiness and joy?

It beautifully works as you regain strength to again get on with your life, with much more ease and without the burden of your old problems that kept lingering in your mind.


Try it! It will be a new beginning and going to bring small and big joys in your life for sure.

Hit Restart NOW!


Cheers:)

Joy Spotting #8: Are you becoming a puppeteer?

I have seen a lot of people who want control over lot many things their lives, like relationships, love, jobs, marriage, money, children, health etc.

You will ask me – So what’s wrong in that? Shouldn’t we be in control of our lives? We just can’t be careless? Isn’t it?

Yes, you should have control over all of these and many more, but not to an extent that it worries you.

A slight deviation in your plan and it nags you.

For e.g. You have a certain beautiful vision about your relationship with your spouse or children or colleague. But the reality is showing you a different picture altogether. Doesn’t mean your relationship with that person is going all wrong…and you start thinking of how to bring this person back to the storyline that you had written in your mind…It’s not going the way you had thought of.

Life is not a puppet show where a storyline is being played in front of the world by you ‘the puppeteer’; and where you guide and direct the characters in and around your life.

And if you are becoming a puppeteer…where you are pulling strings to make the other person, relationship or situation to behave in a manner that you would like to see, it will lead you being worried, stressed and helpless too at times.

What to do in when you find yourself becoming a puppeteer of your life?

Take the first step towards acceptance: Accept what you see in real. Everything cannot be programmed as per your wish.

Second step: In that reality, find goodness in what you have. Work towards amplifying that goodness in people/situations/relationships. And while you are at it, don’t go back to the other ‘programmed’ vision you had about them and try to bring that vision in to reality.

This might take some time but will give you immense freedom, lightness and joy.

Remember…focus on what you have and the goodness in these ‘haves’ and you will most certainly will find yourself in a happy space.

 Cheers J

Joy Spotting #7: Successful or Happyful?

Successful or Happyful?

This is a very pertinent question that you should ask yourself. What are you seeking every day from your life? To be Successful? Yes, that’s what we all want to be in whatever we do professionally and personally. But in the race to become Successful are you losing some bit of your life by worrying too much that you lose that smile; rushing so much that you miss that relaxed time with yourself and your family?

If you are not able to balance success and happiness with ease then focus on being Happyful than being Succesful!

Once you start focusing on being Happyful, success will follow in your life on its own.

Thrive in life by being Happyful!

Cheers J